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In an international mission like ours where not only do we come from many nationalities but we serve in many nations, you don't get to meet most members. When you do there is a fascinating way of establishing connection. There are three main establishing questions: "Where's your sending country? Where are you serving? How long?" Then comes the, "Do you know..."
A tricky question
Today we were asked this:
Today we were asked this:
What builds trust in your home culture?
I found this really hard. It made me realise how we really don't function often in our Australian culture any more. After some thinking I came up with some ideas:
- Honesty
- True blue/ integrity
- Hospitality/socialising
- Quality time
- Paying out on others
Am I right? What would you "monocultural" Aussies add to this?
This differs from how you build trust in Japan. Hospitality is definitely not a key factor, neither is honesty. Longevity and trying to fit in would be high on the list, however.
2 comments:
Some thoughts as someone living in Australia:
For Australians, a primary basis for trust is 'Your Word' - saying you'll do something, and following through. (I guess this fits the 'integrity' one on your list). Perhaps this is why the majority of Australians will not trust politicians, as the politicians are perceived as making promises and then not delivering on those promises.
Paying out on others is a sign of trust, rather than a means to it. If you pay out on others too soon, you cross a boundary that will limit the likelihood of trust developing.
I am definitely aware of the importance of socialising/hospitality, particularly in a church family context, but I'm not sure whether it applies to the wider community.
It is fascinating to consider the divergent values that different cultures hold - and a challenge to our assumptions about what is right, true, and normative!
Thanks Anna for these insights. I truly don't feel like a complete insider in Australian culture anymore!
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