tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post5917285958160198505..comments2024-03-26T15:29:31.939+09:00Comments on on the edge of ordinary: I'm invisibleWendyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17882558757262419263noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post-40545557116314545012014-11-09T12:54:07.118+09:002014-11-09T12:54:07.118+09:00It can even happen locally - I felt it when I move...It can even happen locally - I felt it when I moved from rural Qld to City Qld. Dare I mention it can happen on entering a church that's different from your own. Won't heaven be an education - when we're all so enamoured by Christ as King that our differences won't even be a blip on the radar. A good challenge to consider where our focus is here and now!Rachelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post-38644686154790292412014-11-06T12:22:49.654+09:002014-11-06T12:22:49.654+09:00Ken, quite true!
Jamie, indeed. Selfish, we all ar...Ken, quite true!<br />Jamie, indeed. Selfish, we all are. I do think that our cross-cultural lives train us to look at other people's perspectives. Tertiary education also does this, to some degree.<br />Sarah, that second part of your comment is very sad, but true, nonetheless. Somehow it is a strategy we use to make ourselves feel better?Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17882558757262419263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post-53642165365702460542014-11-06T12:19:51.713+09:002014-11-06T12:19:51.713+09:00On my FB link to this article another friend wrote...On my FB link to this article another friend wrote this telling comment:<br /><br />Your blog is called "on the edge of ordinary", the problem many people invest a great deal into their version of ordinary and I think secretly are threatened when something beyond the usual paradigm intrudes. For example, a conversation I had once with a woman I will call Jan.<br /><br />Jan: Why does the Army make people do a high wire confidence course?<br /><br />Me: we do that to familiarise them with the feeling of fear, and to push them beyond the imaginary comfort zone they have established for themselves.<br /><br />Jan: Why on earth would you want to do that?<br /><br />Me: sigh<br /><br />Or, another thing I have noticed is that people are very often completely uninterested in life or ministry beyond the four walls of their own daily life. Uninterested in fact to the point of wilful ignorance.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17882558757262419263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post-84322208870482057552014-11-05T14:51:45.099+09:002014-11-05T14:51:45.099+09:00I think some people just want to relate to others,...I think some people just want to relate to others, so they draw on their own experiences trying to find similarities. Except, sometimes, there aren't any.<br /><br />And some women just think suffering is a kind of competition, that NO-ONE could possibly have suffered as much as them. Last year I had someone (who is in good health) claiming to me just after I'd come out of hospital with PND that her life was much harder because she had two kids and I only had one.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07193896306650823769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post-67023491358428532752014-11-04T23:22:25.715+09:002014-11-04T23:22:25.715+09:00Wendy, I know all about this!
Fundamentally, peopl...Wendy, I know all about this!<br />Fundamentally, people ARE selfish. <br />But also, I think cross-cultural experience and further, experience in Japan provides many opportunities for imagining how others feel and adjusting one's comments accordingly. Jamie Lives in Tokyohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07625692982277376699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-324860522351083573.post-22690526987380163242014-11-04T16:12:43.341+09:002014-11-04T16:12:43.341+09:00You imagine that people take others into account b...You imagine that people take others into account before they speak. But "It's All About Me", as the advertising says.<br />Ken Rolphhttp://www.palmerhiggsbooks.com.au/dog-tales-ebook.htmlnoreply@blogger.com